Your Own Path
- by Katherine De La Cruz
- Oct 31, 2016
- 2 min read
The best feeling is having so many people around that love and support you. That feeling gives you enthusiasm and faith , but what if those people leave? See that's the downfall, it eventually comes to an end, and then what? You stick to the life you had before they came. Sometimes it's hard for human beings because they tend to rely on others, especially for their happiness. Throughout the past two years, my perspective on human beings has changed. I've come to the conclusion that relationships are temporary, sometimes intentionally or unintentionally. I've felt this way with many loved ones and it is upsetting but that is reality. There is this quote , "I must make the most of you now for I shall not have you forever." The people in your life now may or may not be there eternally or at least they won't be as close to you forever. Relationships eventually end, friendships fade, and family drift apart. I believe that in every relationship there is always one person who believes that relationships are temporary.
People will enter your life with a purpose and sometimes that purpose does not last. One million people in the world meet each other each second of everyday. Yes, in some cases there are people who grow huge bonds with each other, but do they all last? They may still be connected but not as much as they were before. Time changes people , lead people somewhere else, or just alters their way of thinking. It's natural to move on with your life , and that's what people do. Because you cannot live the same life with someone eternally, there will eventually be crossroads. Within those crossroads you will meet new people, share new memories and eventually be accustomed to them. However, the old memories will always stay with you and that is magnificent because we have our own memoir in our brain.
In true love especially , it is rare to find an everlasting couple. You will eventually meet someone who changes your perspective of everything( for the time being). Because whether it is intentional or not, something will separate you. Sometimes it is meant to happen to gain experience, or it was not the right time, or the person just was not right for you. Do not be upset though, because there will always be someone else along the way, just make sure to not wait or look for it. Always depend your happiness on yourself, because besides human relationships you always end up with yourself. Love is just one of the many beautiful things of life.
Despite everything that was said, make sure you make the best of the moments you share with that person. They won't always be there so appreciate them and value them for the time being. Just never forget to love yourself, because everyone needs to. Everyone is special and they matter no matter of their shape, size or skin tone. At the end of the day, we are all human and we make mistakes but that is part of life. Bad things will happen and so good things, so always have faith and hope . Life is beautiful.

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